Want to grow your child’s vocabulary without flashcards or memorizing lists or making it feel like a chore?
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Start by doing something you’re already great at—talking with them.
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This is something easy you can even do this summer to propel your child into the next school year.Â
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Every conversation is a chance to build your child’s language skills. In fact, everyday chats are one of the most natural ways to improve vocabulary, comprehension, and even writing.
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Here’s how to turn ordinary moments into powerful learning opportunities:
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1. Use “Grown-Up” Words on Purpose
Children learn words by hearing them in context. Don’t be afraid to use words like observe, frustrated, predict, or respondin your everyday speech. Then explain what they mean casually:
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“I was frustrated—that means I felt a little annoyed and stuck. Have you ever felt that way?”
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2. Ask Open-Ended Questions
Skip the yes/no questions and go for ones that get your child thinking. Try:
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“What was the most interesting thing you learned today?”
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“If you could change the ending of that story, what would you do?”
This gets your child to use new words as they explain their ideas.
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3. Model Thinking Out Loud
When you’re making a decision or solving a problem, talk through your thinking.
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“I’m comparing the prices here to see which is a better deal. That means I’m looking at how much we get for the price.”
It teaches vocabulary and life skills at the same time.
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4. Tie Words to Real Experiences
Learning a new word? Connect it to something they know.
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“We saw construction today. That’s a real example of something being assembled, or put together.”
Making the word “stick” is easier when they can picture it.
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You don’t need a special curriculum or extra hours in your day.Â
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Just start by being intentional with the words you use—and invite your child to do the same.
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Try it this week and let me know how it goes!
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Happy Learning!